| We all believe that we would never date someone | | | | when you are dating someone who is married it is |
| who is married and agree to be "the other woman" | | | | really difficult to do this. When sneaking around stops |
| or "the other man" but this happens quite a bit. Many | | | | being fun you have two options. The first option is |
| times we meet someone that we really like, we | | | | just to stop seeing the person and go on your way. |
| enjoy spending time with them, and when we are | | | | You can let them know that it was fun while it lasted |
| emotionally invested that is when we learn that they | | | | but that you are not willing to continue leading a life |
| are married. In other instances we just ignore our | | | | that is a lie. The other option is to keep dealing with |
| typical moral judgments and we continue to date the | | | | it. |
| person who is married despite what we have always | | | | Many married people who are dating outside of their |
| told ourselves. | | | | marriage continue to say that they will leave their |
| Dating someone who is married can be challenging in | | | | spouse if you just give them time. If you want to |
| many respects, especially if they are still married and | | | | give the person the benefit of the doubt you can |
| living with someone who doesn't know that they are | | | | always give them a bit of time, but don't assume |
| seeing you! You may find that it is a bit exciting at | | | | that they will do this. This is often a stall tactic. |
| first, because sometimes it can be very exciting to | | | | Another thing that you have to remember is that if a |
| do things "on the down low" and be the mysterious | | | | person was willing to cheat with you, they are |
| person that your love interest sneaks away to. After | | | | probably willing to cheat on you. |
| awhile though, it will start to become bothersome to | | | | Is this the type of person you really want to invest |
| most people because they cannot see their lover | | | | any more time and energy on? This is not to say |
| when they want to, and they can't call when they | | | | that you can't have real feelings for a married |
| want to, and you may even end up spending holidays | | | | person, it's just a fact that most relationships that |
| by yourself. | | | | start in an affair end the same way and this really is |
| Sneaking around is only fun for awhile and then it | | | | just not worth it for most people. There are plenty |
| becomes a burden. When we really like someone we | | | | of single people who can provide you with a great |
| want the world to know that we are with them and | | | | experience all around. |