| ehow feel that awkward moment during the first | | | | Just don't play U2's, "With or Without You" because |
| few minutes of meeting our date. But of course, we | | | | that would just be lame. |
| eventually get the hang of it. To help get you | | | | In fact, to be on the safe side, stay away from |
| through those occasionally awkward first few | | | | anything too lovey dovey sounding. |
| minutes of a 'date,' here is a Super simple dating | | | | Step 3: Just be with her as the music plays and keep |
| advice. Although it can be used at any time | | | | heading towards your destination. (Doesn't matter if |
| throughout the meeting. | | | | you're stationary or sitting down btw) |
| We call it: 'Ipod for 2' | | | | The benefit of this technique is twofold; |
| Now this technique works in almost any environment | | | | 1. You are sharing something with her that has |
| and most situations. | | | | meaning to you. This sets the stage for her to share |
| So here's a scenario: You've just met a girl by the | | | | something personal back. |
| subway station near your house. (you got her to | | | | 2. It isn't possible to share Ipod headphones and NOT |
| come to meet you right?:) It is your first 'date' and | | | | be constantly touching the person you're sharing |
| you are wearing an Ipod. You say your Hello's, and | | | | them with... The more music you play her, the more |
| begin some playful banter. | | | | comfortable she is getting with your touch. And it is |
| Step 1: As you walk through the street towards your | | | | totally incidental! (How else could you both listen?)In |
| destination, you say "Hey you have to hear this | | | | other words, you have a legitimate and excusable |
| amazing song." | | | | reason to be that physically close to her. 'Ipod for 2' |
| And hand her just one of the earbuds. (If you're | | | | is one of the most simple yet effective dating tips |
| feeling bold, go ahead and stick it in her ear for her;) | | | | for men that you can even use it anytime |
| The key is that the other earbud stays in your ear, | | | | throughout the interaction, so don't feel obligated to |
| preferably the one closer to her... | | | | try it at the very beginning. |
| Step 2: Play whatever song you want. The trick is to | | | | In fact, if the date is going well it has much more |
| share something with her that you genuinely enjoy | | | | potential impact when used after some initial bonding |
| listening to and are hopefully even passionate about. | | | | has occurred. |