| How to Flirt Effectively | | | | group. No woman wants to feel like second best. |
| Men and women flirt differently, for different reasons | | | | Refrain from approaching one after another in the |
| and expect different outcomes to the flirting. | | | | same group. You look like a loser and the women |
| However, if you put aside that outcome and flirt just | | | | may think you are desperate and looking for any |
| to be friendly you are opening yourself to different | | | | port in a storm. Even if you are, don’t show it. |
| opportunities. You may well end up with a new lover | | | | When you compliment a woman make certain that it |
| but if that doesn’t work out you could meet | | | | is a genuine compliment. There’s nothing worse |
| someone who becomes a good friend and who | | | | than someone giving out a load of overblown lines. |
| knows who she might introduce you to. Keep your | | | | Everyone has something great about them, notice |
| options open. | | | | that and compliment them genuinely. |
| After you have exchanged glances and smiles across | | | | Do not ever put your hands on a woman uninvited. |
| a room and you are fairly confident that SHE thinks | | | | Some women have no objection to ‘touchy |
| that she might like to get to know you better, send | | | | feely’ encounters, others are horrified by it. |
| a drink to her. But remember that ALL you are | | | | Respect the person until you have had the |
| buying is a drink. Don’t expect her to fall at your | | | | opportunity to know more about her. Touching can |
| feet. Sometimes it is nice just to send someone a | | | | be a lovely flirty action, but should be confined to the |
| drink, watch when she receives it and smile, then | | | | arms or resting the hand just above the arms and |
| look away – look back again later to show your | | | | NOT touching, until you know more. Test the |
| interest. | | | | personal space by moving closer, noticing the |
| If you find yourself invited to her table, keep you | | | | reactions then moving back a little to remove the |
| mind on the conversation and not on getting a date | | | | threat. |
| with her. Most women want to know what kind of | | | | Respect yourself at all times. Women always fall for |
| person they are going out with long before they | | | | men who are that little bit unreachable. Don't hover |
| actually go out with them. Make an effort to get to | | | | or grovel or act desperate. Think of yourself as |
| know her and give her the opportunity to get to | | | | special and know what you deserve the very best. |
| know you before diving in for a date. | | | | Put the trick into practice. |
| Do not ever approach two women in the same | | | | |