Japanese Customs - Forms of Address

When journeying to a foreign country it is importantThe Japanese do use first names. However, this is
that you abide by the culture of that country. Whatonly between close friends and other family
might be considered all right in one country, such asmembers. Name suffixes such as -chan and -kun are
addressing someone you do not know by their firstused with close acquaintances or friends in place of
name, would be considered a great insult in another.the -san suffix. Should you use these less formal
In Japan, it is particularly important to use the propersuffixes? As a foreigner you should not, unless you
form of address when speaking to someone. Thehave developed a great deal of skill in the Japanese
following are some forms of addressing an individuallanguage. The exception would be if you are told to
while you're in Japan.use the less formal form of address by the individual
You can never go wrong by using the suffix -san.themselves.
This is added to the end of a persons name as a signThe suffix -chan is widely used among women
of respect. The people of Japan are extremely polite,friends, family members and less so but sometimes
especially when meeting or speaking with someoneamong men. Grandmothers use -chan to call to their
they are not acquainted with. The word -san is alsograndsons. The suffix -kun is most commonly used
used as an addressing suffix added to an individual'sfor children and particular boys, usually while they are
family name.still in school. You can almost never go wrong in
This is equivalent to adding the adding Mr., Ms or Mrs.Japan by being respectful to everyone. One honorific
in front of a person's first or last name as in theform of addressing a person is -sama, which is used
English language. Most people in America would beby people of service or lower status to a person of
fine with other people calling you by your first namehigher status or who is being served. This is one
without adding any honorifics, or using just your firstform of address that shows respect.
name with an honorific. In Japan that is not the case.Another form of respect is the honorific Sensei. This
The suffix -san just has to be there. It is consideredhonorific is used towards someone who is considered
very impolite or vulgar to not use it, and is an insultaccomplished or particularly deserving of respect, like
to not do so. It is also considered impolite to add toa doctor, lawyer, artist, teacher, employer, or political
your own name or when speaking of yourself tofigure. Sensei can be used as a suffix or it can stand
another.alone as a title.