Job Search Stress - What to Avoid

Most people are aware of the stress we face inhad not considered. Sometimes two heads are better
various situations. It might be moving homes, tacklingthan one. There are many job clubs or groups,
illness or a bereavement. There are many times incareers advisors and personal coaches that could
our lives when external pressures affect the way weoffer you the right advice to help you.
behave. It is at times like these that we often needWhat to avoid:
advice and guidance to help know what to do, andProcrastination -Putting things off can bring
more importantly what not to do.unnecessary stress to a job search. Delaying doing
Without the right advice, things can become morethe things you know you need to do, often means
daunting than necessary. If you have been madeyou lose enthusiasm. So when you read the classified
redundant, are in between jobs or considering aads and find a few that seem interesting, cut the ads
change of career; the stress of budgeting yourout, get your CV and cover letter and answer them
finances, maintaining a stable family lifestyle, managingimmediately. If you put it off and don't get round to
your time effectively and many other issues candoing it at all; then you'll get nowhere. Knowing that
have profound consequences on your job searching.you have made the effort will help you eliminate a lot
Recognizing that job search stress is real will make aof job search stress.
great difference in the effectiveness of yourPerfectionism - One man's perfectionist is another
attempts to find employment as quickly as possible.man's egoist. There are many possible situations
If you can define the possible causes of job searchwhere adopting a perfectionist attitude can work
related stress, you will be able to put strategies intoagainst you when job searching. Don't get caught up
place to cope with any job search anxiety that willin the need to produce the perfect CV - it does not
significantly affect how you approach your jobexist or is never used! An impressive CV is important,
hunting, how you perform at interviews and how youbut spending hour after hour amending and revising
relate to others during the time it takes you to getmay only serve to add to the worry. Do the best
your next job.you can, but don't let it become an obsession.
Job search stress can be handledPessimism / Powerlessness - Pessimism and
The good news is that having an awareness of jobpowerlessness often go hand in hand. It is easy to
search stress is the best way of ensuring you havefeel that you are not in control of your life when you
safeguards ready that you can put into practice.are dependent on others to give you the opportunity
Planning ahead will greatly reduce many of theto get that job. If during this period you can maintain
situations that can cause job search stress.a positive attitude and focus on the goal, you stand
Here are some useful tips:a great chance of defeating these two negative
Use your time effectively: Set a schedule that will suitfeelings. Concentrate on your strengths and what
you. If you work better in short bursts rather thanyou have to offer, not just an employer but family
sitting down for long periods, factor that into yourand friends. Be optimistic and remember you can
schedule. Your choice of career might dictate yourcontrol your future.
best method of job hunting, if you are a tradesmanProblem People - There are certain people who live
it might be best to telephone possible employers andby the 'glass is half empty' belief. These negative
contacts when they are more receptive rather thanpeople and individuals can truly bring your spirits
calling them during a hectic work schedule.down. You need to do whatever you can to avoid
Keep a job search record: Write a record of the jobsany additional job search stress. Keep telling yourself
that you have applied for, where you saw thethat their mind-set is not the same as yours. You are
advertisement, when you sent your application form,responsible for your own thoughts and actions, not
calls you have made, CVs and speculative letters youtheirs. Always remember that positive thoughts can
have sent. This serves as a great way of ensuringbring positive results.
that you carry out any necessary follow up actionThere are many reasons for why we suffer stress,
and do not miss any important deadlines.we all have different problems and need different
Don't be afraid to ask for support and advice. Atmeans to cope, live with and defeat the worries and
times it may seem as you are the only person goinganxieties we face. If you are currently seeking
through the job search process. The fact is thatemployment the best way to cope with stress is to
nearly everyone has to face the process of finding aremain positive and believe in yourself - never give up
job. If you ask for help you may be surprised andand you will succeed.
find another means of achieving your aims that you