| In the words of a really hot female friend of mine "I | | | | her.....usually a sign of too much time on your hands! |
| hate needy guys". She is frustrated that all the guys | | | | Keep busy and you will not have the time to get |
| she meets either want a one night stand, or want a | | | | infatuated. Control of your thoughts is the key to |
| relationship right away or start acting all clingy and | | | | success in all areas of life. |
| needy. | | | | 4) Fake it till you make it. While it is best if you |
| And that is the secret. Girls can sense neediness in a | | | | eliminate all neediness by using the tips above, this will |
| guy and it repulses them. It is relatively easy to learn | | | | take time, and in the meantime eliminate all the |
| enough game to attract girls. But the hardest thing to | | | | actions and needy things you say. Examples include |
| do is to get rid of that AFC neediness that has a | | | | going all mushy and saying how you feel, calling her |
| tendency to linger on. | | | | too often, being too nice to her, going out of your |
| What I have found helps is: | | | | way to see her, and doing romantic things much too |
| 1) Work as hard as you can to get to the stage | | | | soon |
| where you are confident that you can get girls. That | | | | 5) You are at most danger of acting needy when |
| way you know if things don't work out with girl A, | | | | you have fallen for a girl. It is relatively easy not to |
| you can just go out and get some other girl. | | | | act needy when your emotions are not really |
| 2) Get used to being alone. One cause of neediness | | | | involved. But it is much harder when you really like a |
| is fear of being alone. When a girl becomes integral | | | | girl. An AFC tendency is to fall for girls far too quickly |
| to your happiness it is hardly surprising you cling to | | | | and girls hate it. You never want to fall for a girl |
| her because you fear losing her will also mean losing | | | | unless she has fallen for you first and even then be |
| your happiness. But it is never good to be reliant on | | | | careful because girls are very fickle and fall in and out |
| others, you have to be happy period with or without | | | | of love very very quickly. You have to be able to |
| a girl. If that requires a complete break from women | | | | keep your emotions under control and if you feel |
| so be it. | | | | yourself falling for her, take a step back, snap out of |
| Get a life first, then you'll be able to date girls with a | | | | it and remember you are just experiencing infatuation |
| much more relaxed approach. | | | | and the feelings aren't real. |
| 3) Cut out all the silly daydreaming, thinking about | | | | |